What’s your #1 pro tip for students preparing for admissions interviews?
DA: Prepare some questions to ask the interviewer - this is your chance to get to know more about our schools as well.
CB: Be yourself! We want to know what your passions and interests are and why you’re interested in bringing them to our school.
JF: Do a little research about the school and think of some questions you want to ask your interviewer - the interview is meant to be a chance for you to learn more about us, too! Also, relax and be yourself - it will be a casual conversation; we don’t try to stump you.
JM: Be yourself. Think about your passions and interests in all areas such as academics, athletics and extracurriculars before you interview.
DF: It is most important to have done some research prior to your visit so you can ask questions about specific programs in order to really understand the differences between the schools you are considering. Visit websites. Check out social media posts. It is obvious to admission reps who have genuinely taken the time to learn about a school vs. those who do not.
VCS: The interview is the time for the School to get to know you! It is best to spend that time talking about your interests, why boarding school, and what you want out of high school instead of using that time to gather the information you can find on the website or in admission materials.
AL: Engage thoughtfully with questions; take advantage of opportunities to include stories, aspirations, inspirations, and experiences when you’re answering a question asked by an interviewer.
AY: Relax, breathe, and be yourself!
What's one question you ask every student applying for your school?
DA: There is a lot going on in the world right now - tell me about a global issue, current event, or topic that interests you. How have you leaned into this interest?
CB: What stands out to you the most about Midland? Why do you want to attend and how do you see yourself thriving here?
JF: What are some activities/interests that you wish to continue at Choate, and what are some things you think you’d like to try for the first time?
JM: What are your thoughts regarding diversity?
DF: In what ways do you think you will make a positive impact in our community?
VCS: Sometimes boarding school can be challenging. When times have been tough for you, what value keeps you going?
AL: Some variation of: What does belonging mean to you? What does it look like for you to feel a deep sense of belonging in community? In which communities do you feel a deep sense of belonging? What does it look like for you to contribute to creating and sustaining a culture of belonging for others?
AY: Why Thacher?
What’s one of the most important things a student should consider when inquiring about boarding school?
DA: There is a school out there for everyone so try to embrace the process and don’t allow the stress to keep in
CB: What can you not live without (make sure it exists on that campus), but more importantly, how can you most challenge yourself by trying something new and exciting? Boarding school is all about trying new things.
JF: Listen to your gut and find the best fit - obviously consider whether a school’s programs/facilities/courses fit your unique goals and interests, but also listen to your gut and make sure a school feels like a place you can call home for the next few years.
JM: The size of the student population.
DF: You want to attend a school where you can see yourself driving across the country in a Volkswagon Beattle with your peers and teachers and when you arrive at the other coast, you can honestly say you liked the trip and still enjoy the people you traveled with. All schools offer strong academic programs, sports, arts, etc. None of these things matter if you do not feel good and comfortable with the students and adults in your community.
VCS: Every school has its own personality, values, and style. A lot like people, we are not all the same. Therefore, doing research is important. We all want the same things for students, but we all go about it in different ways.
AL: Students should consider in what ways they aspire to actively participate in their high school experience. [Note: I said aspire; students don’t necessarily need to be ready to do this before they come to us. Part of the boarding school experience is equipping our students with the skills and habits that will allow them to build this capacity.] Boarding schools provide incredible opportunities for students to be at the center of their learning; the myriad of opportunities offered in a boarding school setting coupled with an environment that prioritizes meaningful relationships, personal exploration, and perpetual growth, provides you, the student, with the tools you need to design a transformative experience.
AY: Alignment of interests, activities, and personality.
How does a student know they would be a good fit for boarding school? How do you ensure a student can thrive in a boarding school environment?
DA: Are you ready to stretch yourself? Do you want to learn to be more independent and self-reliant? When interacting with our schools, especially if you are able to come to campus, something will click. Maybe it’s the people, might be the campus, could be a program offered that really resonates with you -- either way, trust your intuition and the feelings you feel. We ensure students thrive by wrapping our arms around them. Each person has a team of adults looking out for them (
advisors, teachers, coaches, form deans, dorm parents, and more). We meet regularly in spaces to both challenge and support kids as everyone embraces this journey in their own ways.
CB: Anyone can be/is a great fit for boarding school. You just have to be ready to challenge yourself, try new things, and be up for an adventure. By showing up and diving into new clubs, activities, sports, etc. you’ll thrive!
JF: We find that successful Choate students are curious, open-minded, compassionate, and self-sufficient yet unafraid to ask for help. We at Choate say that we offer students “guided independence”: we let them figure things out for themselves and build independence, but we are always there to support them if need be. We have a multi-tiered support system in place for our students; each student is paired with an faculty adviser who they meet with at least once a week, each grade has two deans who support that grade’s students, and every dorm has prefects (seniors who are selected to be leaders/role models/resources in the dorm). We also have an Equity & Inclusion Team as well as a full-time Counseling Staff in place to provide support to our students.
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JM: If they are intellectually curious. If they are involved in multiple facets and if they are ready and willing to join a community.
DF: This all comes down to really doing your homework, asking questions, researching schools, etc. Not every school is a good fit for a student despite a strong interview and application. Often we hear it just felt right or I followed my gut instinct. It is OK to be nervous about saying yes to a boarding school but there should be lots of excitement as well. In admissions, it is our job to get to know students well throughout the application process. We need to be honest with the family and ourselves about fit in the classroom, dorms, theater, clubs, athletics, etc. Will a student be able to take a deep breath and feel like they belong? The tour and interview is an important piece to determine fit as are your recommendations. Grades are easier to understand but we also need to know how hard one has to work to earn those grades? Do you receive support outside of the classroom? Are you being challenged? We also are not afraid to call a family or a recommendation to get clarity around an area of concern. In the end, our jobs are to make sure kids are set up for success in our communities and so we take the time to really know our applicants.
VCS: Students who tend to thrive in boarding school are independent, eager to learn, open to pushing themselves out of their comfort zones, and excited to live amongst their teachers and classmates. Boarding school is the kind of environment where you get out of it what you put into it, so students have to put forth a valiant effort to maximize their experience.
AL: Determining a great “fit” between a student and a school is of critical importance in ensuring that a student can access, benefit from, and contribute to the mission of a school. When we think of a mission-driven school with mission-minded community members, determining fit is some of the most important work we do. In the end, I think establishing or predicting the likelihood of reciprocity between the student and the mission is a strong indicator of fit.
AY: Are they excited (maybe a little nervous) for new experiences away from home?